I am a slob, no one puts in my area the opposition. Some people even defend my chaos, they call it creative chaos. For me it is neither chaos nor creative chaos. I am just not that important to maintain the external order. If I do not think one Scherer, then I'll buy just five Scherer.
The problem is that the other and I have to work together. So, I am learning to respect the sense of order.
On the other hand – if I really just like a slob, there would probably not
Shui Tang.
But the internal order in my mind's “garden” I give myself to maintain effort.
Everyone has a garden, he must care for themselves. Unfortunately we can not cultivate his garden for the other. I do not care if my garden, watering and weeding no Umkraut not, then I lose myself in my own garden soon. I will not understand me and the world right – unfortunately, this happens too often with me
.Most people live like this. You do not know what is wrong with them. They abuse other people as their emotional garbage can and walk away from potential conflicts. They know their feelings, are surprised by the emotional outburst. You can not name their feelings.
She told me that she was given a beautiful teapot. You want to know how they should maintain this teapot.
Young, handsome and strong young woman that stood before me. They asked me for advice because she had no energy at the moment. She has stopped her studies for the third time.
“Do you feel without energy, because you now own their own structure must travel because you feel as a failure because you accuse yourself?”
“Why you know it?” she began to cry.
“Because I know those feelings in me, because I've experienced it myself and also to experience again and again – probably …”< br />We sat at the tea table. We drank the wonderful Dongding Guifei Wulong. It is already fifth Infusions, but he is still color-way and meaningful. “Hmmmm, what a beautiful fragrance!”
“What name do you want this fragrance?”
“I do not know.” she answered me with big eyes.
“If you ask yourself, you might get a picture, a thought or an idea of what may be this fragrance.” I smiled, “Sometime you can watch your perceptions and feelings and understand by You try to name!”
That is why the way of tea is a way.
“You mean, all wine connoisseurs know each other well?”
“I do not know.” I shook my head, “if you name the flavor, to converse with other people, then it is rather on the external level, does not it?”
I mean, rather, what concerns me even that has to do only with myself. Because I want to understand themselves and cultivate my garden. And tea is helping me.
“I smell fruit and bee.” she laughed, “I feel much better now.”
I'm happy for them.
“But you still want other people to talk about tea, which is not only your feelings, right?”
“Sure.” I looked into the cup, “when one is free, you can move on any level …”< br />In my garden, certain corners just booked me. I am free to decide, which part I share with others.
She went and told me in parting, that she continues therapy and perhaps as a teashop Shui Tang would open in the future.
“Great!”
Imagine if there are more Shui Tang in this world!.